Monday, May 07, 2007
Have decided to go Aust with Dad and Zac.. from the 20th June-27th June. will be going to Brisbane/Gold Coast, mainly the "5 worlds"... it is for zac but im going to tag along... i love going to such places... LOL
thats one thing.. the main purpose of this blog is...
while working.. i was thinking back .. back to the days of Northland Secondary School.. i rem i was being a nuisance to one of the teachers whom i seriously DO NOT LIKE- Miss Lau. she has this weird taste of ankle socks and it is ugly.. so whenever i pass her.. i will laugh at her till one day she BURST! i was walking pass her and i guess she couldn't take it and SUMMON me to her.. i went to her ( a bit scared lah.. still she is a teacher and im just a student) and she keeps questioning me: which part of me is so funny, why i always pass her i will laugh at her...it went on for like 15 mins? she was talking so loud and students walking pass were just LOOKING at us... n my good ol' buddies were just standing in a corner .. hahaha.. but i managed to pull one of them down as well- KERK LIH YAN....
anyway.. the reason why i bring this memory back is.. whenever you are in the wrong or did sth "bad" to someone... admit it! stand up and face it.. no use hiding/ avoiding it. I think in the end, we apologise to that teacher? or wateva ... i couldn't rem what happened when the confrontation comes to an end. so after that i think i still laugh at her lah but not so obvious... haha...
so no use avoiding situation when u are in the wrong. admit it, make peace and carry on with life.. we are all grown ups ay!!! not childish little kids staying at home trying to act like babies... .
the lesson that i/we have to bear in mind: be humble, make peace and not chaos, make friends not enemies, learn from mistakes in that way- we grow. *Cassandra, bear that in mind*
living in New Zealand brings along lots of FREEDOM. the very opposite of freedom is CONTROL. i guess no one likes to be controlled. no one is more superior than the other to control their daily events, their choices, everything! In new zealand, news broadcasters question the PM-Helen Clarke like i've never seen before happen in Singapore. they question the PM, they bombard her with lots of questions and if she has gone astray, they will interupt her and repeat their questions once again.
anyway.. personally i feel that controlling someone else is bad..... *like how the SG govt brainwashes every Singaporeans*.. u to all those control freaks!!! let loose your line- u might find that by doing that, ur relationship with ur loved ones/friends might be even better than before... controlled relationship is NOT a relationship. rem that!!!
okie... wanna go watch tv alr... rem readers... feel free to comment and give ur views.. i welcome both constructive and destructive ones.... but not too destructive ah.. hahah
This ended @ 6:30 PM
