Thursday, April 19, 2007
For Fidelia's blog with a everchanging status!
OK! since things have gone pretty ugly- i will mak e use of this time to give my comments. first of all, if you dun know who i am, please ask Chee Seng or please go to my blog: www.hilarious-gingy.blogspot.com. If memory holds for you, we've only met once when i was back in Spore for a short visit.
Anyway, back to the point i want to make.
You have no right to judge my friend, Qiuyan. As you urself said to STOP judging without understanding the other party. DO you understand her? Do you know her well enough? The only answer is NO! So please do not let me hear the word HATE QIUYAN again cos that is injustice done to her and you are just simply contradiciting urself. In your blog entry titled: "i'm a difficult person to deal with", all i can sense is pure Jealousness you have against Qiuyan. If you do not feel secure in your relationship with Chee Seng, talk it out with him. DO NOT direct your anger to Qiuyan.
And yes, I'm disappointed that my friend, Chee Seng has chosen to (so called) take your side and defend you. I'm not going to reprimand him, ask him to wake up, get him to break off with you or watsoever, as that is childish. All i hope is that he will be HAPPY in his relationship with you. As simple as that. I do not want unhappiness in him at all. I want him to enjoy life, work hard, meet up with his mates and not confined himself in a relationship that he has has no time to laugh like how he normally does, talk freely as he always does, enjoy himself 100%...
My personal view.... how do you know that CS has not lost things/friendship/freedom he once owns... All you care is yourself... How do u know his previous status of enjoyment/freedom when all you see is YOURSELF? Please if you really treasure this relationship, please do take some time to understand him really. DO NOT TORTURE him anymore.
*by the way, Chee Seng, these are my personal views. I'm only doing this because we are friends. As simple as that.*
Susan is a very close friend with Chee Seng and i bet that she understands Chee Seng more than you understand him. And i'm really glad that he made the choice to attend Liyan's birthday party and i bet that he is really happy and had enjoy himself to the fullest that night.
In addition, please ask yourself why are there so many people NOT in your favour. Have they wronged you? Are they being biased?
Why is it that CS parents, brothers and close friends have trouble getting in sync with you? the answer is pretty obvious to me... take a moment to think about it! if you have troubles or do not understand - tell me, and i will tell you what i feel. you can tag on my blog or my email is cassan_chan@hotmail.com
i shall stop here, and last but no least, if you want to write, pls be brave to publish and show. DO NOT change blog address frequently, DO NOT have restricted access cos this only shows how AFRAID you are... Sorry that it hurts but it is the truth. Why write and then change address, restrict access? c'mon!!! this is a blog. it is international and on a public space. Which part of it do you not understand?? dare to write, dare to publish if you have limited knowledge of understanding plain english.
This ended @ 9:46 PM
